A bridgehouse starts with the declaration of a bridgehouse. All next steps - planning, preparation, kick-off - are already a bridgehouse unfolding.
Arrival is a liquid state. Lots of self-compassion, acceptance, love needed in this period. No pressure. Not making plans for the first day. Reserving a day to sense the team, the house, the Land (one of the declared team members).
Nature helps to connect with What Is.
Child in space is a gift.
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Radical Responsibility - how can I remember to enliven it each moment?
Be very careful when I am "right" or when I want tobe "right. I want to have my sword at my own throat about being right.
Letting go of being right.
Aliveness and the Unknown as the guiding force. Using Fear to guide us.
Becoming unhookable as a key skill in the Bridgehouse.
Question: How can I read the information and respond to the information instead of being reactive (even if disguised as spaceholding) or coaching without asking. Proposals:
- Prioritising receiving information and responding (relating). Only after asking if you can give feedback (coaching). If emotion arises in the speaker or listener taking an appropriate action - EHP or other (healing).
- Using a "black hole" tool - imagining a black hole the front me during a challenging communication. I just hear the information, and I let all the emotionality and reactivity fall into the black hole.
